Turning a Girl on with Words
When it comes to sexual intimacy, women are generally slow to warm up to the moment. Laying the romantic foundation with words before indulging in the real act contribute much in building the rungs to stimulation. This is whether she’s away and you’re waiting for her to get home, or you’re together in the room but just hinting out your later intention. It’s more like planting the seeds of stimulation so that everything flows naturally with lots of fun. Acts like sending her flowers, cooking dinner or opening the door for her make her feel great. Any woman would enjoy seeing her man do things she usually does herself. It’s even exciting when she knows that it’s part of the day’s treat. Just like these acts, words are also powerful. Compliment her how great or naughty she looks in the day’s dress and also pay some attention to her strengths like the way she’s been awesome at raising your children. These words ignite some special fire within her that only pays you off. Tailor your compliments to wow your girl. Say something like, “Your legs are growing more beautiful. Do you work out without my knowledge?”
If you’re not for compliments, look sexily into the deeper eyes of your lover until she’s hypnotized and ask something stupid like, “Why do some people make so much noise when banging? Do girls like it so?” it will send her romantically wild and might yearn for more intimate and fun-filled moments. You could even take the explicit route and naughtily tell her what you plan to do to her tonight and how you’ll let her melt in it.
Turning a Girl on Over Text
Texting is still one of the major ways people use to communicate and express their feelings. If you master how to turn your girl on over text, it gets easier going romantically physical with her. Here are some texting tips to help you turn your special lady on.
- Flirt with her over text. Learn more playful flirting over texts that turn the conversation sexually fun. In such instances, sexual innuendos come could come out as great jokes. If she says, “Seems crazy out today. 7 inches of snow! Wacky, huh?” Respond with, “7 inches is quite fulfilling, I hear.” It will get the balls rolling.
- Own your own sexual desire for her. There are times you just need to step the game up and tell your girl exactly how she makes you feel, and what you think of doing with her. This brings out the confidence women want in a man. It might open her up to express her sexual desires to you too.
- Ask her to send you her pictures, not necessarily the nudes. You could even start by asking for a picture of her favorite animal and let the conversation roll on. You carry it wittingly, and boom! Her crazy pictures would be on your phone.
- Sexualize your texts. This plays out well when you had an exciting interaction with the girl before picking the number. Girls may not just show it, but sexual texts are a great turn on to most women. They are tenfold better than the boring, “How is it going today?”.
Be Confident and Take the Lead
One of the best traits that women find so attractive in men is confidence that is accompanied by luring wit. Girls tend to open up around men who are just fun and know what they want in a relationship. Those who are not afraid to take the lead and show the queen how to steer every romantic moment. Step out of the box and find your inner assertive man who’s persuasive while expressing their naughty thoughts. This is far from bossing her around. Allow her time and space to express herself too. Apart from holding intimate talks with her, little acts like making dinner reservations and taking her out for a night she won’t forget work wonders in bringing out the kind of man you are.
What to Do When You’re Turned On
So, you’ve been flirting over texts, your sensual bodybuilding up with each moment? Let a relaxing bath send your aroused mindset back to calmness. It will help your lower muscles relax. As you enjoy the warmth of the bathtub, you’ll become more mindful of your body. If that’s not close to your intention, take on any physical activity that may help switch your mind off any intimate thoughts. You can also exercise to take your mind off the sexual mood. For men who know how to take control of their emotions, spending some special time alone as your body relaxes could help out. You could relax while consoling yourself that there would be a perfect time for the actual encounter.
How to Tell a Girl is Turned On
The ability to tell whether your partner is sexually turned on or not requires you to have a special connection with her. It would be easier to tell if she feels more loved, secure and free with you. Such feelings tend to stimulate a close emotional connection. Just know that not all signs are ‘down there.’ Reserved girls would say, “I’m feeling too excited” or “You really get me going.” The naughty types would leave no word out. Expect something like, “Baby, I’m soooo turned on,” or something close to, “You got me so wet.”
Another turn on signs could relate to;
- Her heart rate increases and her breathing becomes heavier
- Body temperature becomes heated
- She grinds or pushes herself against you
- Her arms are trying to hold or hug you, rather weakly
Get Busy with Your Girl
Women are complicated. It could take you ages studying them and still come out to learn much more afterwards. Taking time to understand your girl and how her mind and bodywork during sexual intimacy is the only way to enjoy your romantic encounters. Once you understand her physical cues, turning her on anytime will just be a game. You’ll definitely know how to switch her mood flawlessly.
